A second thought regarding forgiveness comes from my seven year old daughter. She captures the simplicity of the matter that we so often overlook. She mentioned at our family discussion of the matter, "Well, when it comes to forgiveness, YOU have to be the one to ask for it." That's exactly right, YOU have to do it. It can't come from another. You can not ask for it on my behalf. Nor can I represent you when it comes to seeking it.
Now certainly a leader can speak for those they lead. For example, as a father, I can offer words that speak for the whole of the family. But if I mis-speak to one of my children, it will not suffice for my wife to mention to them that I am sorry and indeed wish to be forgiven. I must go myself.
Confronting sin and asking for forgiveness from others is a personal thing. As we pursue living with no regrets, let us remember that. May heaven's joy be ours as we take on this task one with another.
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